I CARE
(Part X)
An Experience
In Mentoring Inner City Youth
By David Kobrin
Author's
note: The names of the boys and their families have been changed to protect
their privacy.
Part X
Carl and I continued to meet on Thursdays until the winter holiday. I always
get two tickets to the Rose Parade in Pasadena and told him he would be
my guest for the 1996 parade. He loved that, even though it meant
waking up at 5:30 AM.
We took many wonderful trips this year. In March I had Carl stay
at my home for the first time. Barbara Jean felt comfortable about
this and him staying overnight turned out to be a non-issue.
We started the evening by going to LAX so Carl could have the same airplane
visit that Jason had experienced. We met my flight attendant
friend and Carl actually got to sit behind the controls in the pilots seat
while I pretended to co-pilot. We received first class treatment
from my
friend who
went out of her way to make his visit a memorable event.
The next day we woke up rather early and prepared a fresh breakfast of
pancakes and fruit for a friend of mine who would be coming over later
in the morning. He had fun turning my kitchen into a five star restaurant.
He even served her.
I was working in the library at school one day when a parent, Suzanne,
came in and we started to talk. It did not take long to find out
her husband was a prominent camera man in the movies. She provided
delicious soups to the sets he worked on and currently they were both working
on the new Tom Hanks film, "That Thing You Do." She asked if Carl
and I would like to visit the set.
I can't remember the last time I said "yes" as quickly as I did that day.
I've been to my share of Hollywood events and met plenty of famous people.
However, to my knowledge, Carl had never had this opportunity and now he
was invited to meet two time Academy Award winning actor Tom Hanks.
I phoned Barbara Jean and told her the exciting news. I think she
had grown used to me bringing Carl on some spectacular trips and took this
invitation in stride.
Carl can be shy if he wants and in the presence of a bonified movie star
I figured he might not be able to say a word. As we drove to the Ambassador
Hotel in Los Angeles, I suggested he
have a little
fun and recite the famous line from Toms film "Forest Gump."
The phrase is "Momma always said Life is like a box of Chocolate, you never
know what you're going to get." He chuckled and began to practice.
I told him not to be nervous and just have fun.
When we arrived at the hotel, we immediately saw the huge trucks and equipment
associated with a big budget film. We parked and marveled at how
they turned this closed hotel into a five star establishment form another
era.
The setting we saw was in front of the hotel where bellboys were loading
cabs and actors were rehearsing lines. Gigantic lights illuminated
the building. My friend took us over to meet her husband.
Carl chatted with another cameraman and I glanced around the set to catch
a glimpse of Tom. My eyes landed on a man in a black baseball cap
sitting on a box. He seemed relaxed and watched as people worked
around the set. I concluded he must be a production assistant waiting
for directions.
It turned out to be Tom Hanks.
I tapped Carl on the shoulder and he peered up from the camera he had been
examining. Suzanne's husband asked Tom if he would mind posing for
a picture and he happily agreed. It was at this moment that I prompted
Carl to recite the line from the movie. To my amazement and joy,
he did. Before he could finish Tom joined in and they ended the sentence
together.
Afterwards, Tom wrote in an autograph that Carl did the line perfectly.
Everyone made us feel quite welcome and we enjoyed watching them film a
scene, both in person and through a video monitor which showed the camera's
point of view. We were watching the final scene being filmed and
it included a rather long kiss between the two actors. Carl seemed
particularly
interested.
It seemed innocent enough, so I let him watch. I did want to set
a good example and explained this is a movie and people do kiss.
He looked at me with a strange expression and said "duh."
Part
XI
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